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* Don't talk the person out of releasing their emotions, but **don' | * Don't talk the person out of releasing their emotions, but **don' | ||
* Do **not express approval or disapproval**, | * Do **not express approval or disapproval**, | ||
- | * Do **not encourage the person to verbalize** (at least not during the emotional release). Do NOT make the person talk, other that, as in my examples, to have them say their name or yours, or very trivial, general things and feelings. This is especially crucial if the person you're caring for is someone working in sensitive contexts where there are important security issues, if they are, for example, an exposed or high profile activist (which you might not even be aware of). You are to keep them safe, and that includes to keep them safe from having said, released, too much information, to you, to a stranger. This could leave them feeling anxious and terrible, who knows, it could keep them from sleeping at night, AFTER your session, ruining all the care and little trust that you had. Besides, it might also mean trouble and inquietude for you, having now in your possession information you would have been better NOT to have in the first place. Furthermore, | + | * Do **not encourage the person to verbalize** (at least not during the emotional release). Do NOT make the person talk, other that, as in my examples, to have them say their name or yours, or very trivial, general things and feelings. This is especially crucial if the person you're caring for is someone working in sensitive contexts where there are important security issues, if they are, for example, an exposed or high profile activist (which you might not even be aware of). You are to keep them safe, and that includes to **keep them safe from having said, released, too much information**. This could leave them feeling anxious and terrible, who knows, it could keep them from sleeping at night, AFTER your session, ruining all the care and little trust that you had. Besides, it might also mean trouble and inquietude for you, having now in your possession information you would have been better NOT to have in the first place. Furthermore, |
* If you are genuinely worried though, if you feel that something here is really wrong, that this person should address certain serious issues, **wait for after the massage to have a conversation** about it. And, either propose a conversation with you (if, and only if, you feel you have the availability, | * If you are genuinely worried though, if you feel that something here is really wrong, that this person should address certain serious issues, **wait for after the massage to have a conversation** about it. And, either propose a conversation with you (if, and only if, you feel you have the availability, | ||
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